Also look out for the monthly Blush queer parties.
This is important as it's one thing to see things from a traveler's perspective; another to see it from a local's perspective and we definitely encourage people to see it from both.
However, Thailand is in the process of reviewing a Life Partnership Bill.
Whilst there are no gay marriage laws yet in Vietnam, in 2015 the government passed the Law on Marriage and Family, which outlaws the ban on gay weddings.