The practice sesh "When I was 12, my best friend had already had her first kiss and I hadn't, so she suggested we make out so I could 'learn how to do it for the future.
When I leaned in at the end of the night to give her a kiss, I got cold feet and just hugged her.
You don't have to have it all figured out.
She says after the initiation ceremony, the counselors advised her to perform a Kusasa Fumbi or "removing the dust" ritual with a man of my choice.