Medical people call it a haemostat, and sometimes a nurse can get you one to use.
The head is just asking to be pierced, but a reverse PA didn't appeal to me, and an ampallang would undo what I had worked so hard to accomplish.
BME: What are your future plans? There was a picture on BME of a penis that had a whole lot of dydoes, and on the right side of the picture it was shrunken like a grapefruit that had started to rot, and I know the guy must have had an infection during the healing period and scarred down part of the spongy head.
I saw an apadravya on BME that really appealed to me, but what else could be done? If you chicken out at this point, it will eventually come back to normal.